- 2013 budget ready in Sept - Okonjo-Iweala
- NASU set to pull out of NLC
- How to improve Nigerian varsities on world ranking - Don
- Police warn Oyo NURTW against public disorder
- S/West PDP leaders meet in Abeokuta
- PDP names 47-man advisory committee •Ekwueme, Anenih, Akinjide, George, Gemade, Lar make list
- Jonathan better than OBJ, IBB, others - Varsity workers
- JAMB retiree sues bank over disappearance of N18m from account
- Niger loses N5.2bn to malaria annually
- CBN issues directives on foreign loan repayment... As interbank rates rise to 14.66%
- FG provided N60bn subsidy on power tariff in 2012 - Minister
- Escape of robbery suspects: Police arraign 3 prison guards in Niger
- Ondo gov election: Mimiko preaches peace
- Why Ekiti PDP will not accept harmonisation - Elders, group
- Buhari taught politicians how to rig elections - Gov Lamido
She abandoned me for several years, now she ... (II)
Dear readers,
This is the concluding part of last week’s story. According to our writer, a good mother is like a jewel, those, who have one would call her a valuable jewel.
What then would you say of a mother who abandoned her child at the time she needed her most?
Now, she is back, how would this young woman handle the situation? She needs your help.
Monica Taiwo.
Dear Taiwo,
In the early hours of the morning, I was awaken by voices. Five men in black were talking in one of the rooms. From their conversation, I could deduce that they were thieves sharing their booty.
I made to run away, but they chased and caught up with me. That early morning, four of them raped and beat me up. They did not allow me out of their sight, because they felt I would spill what I saw and heard.
One of them, who I guessed was their leader took me home. He lived alone in a mini - flat and he raped me almost every hour. Whenever I tried to refuse, he would beat me up.
Eventually, I gave in. Three days later, when the others came, they equally took turns to rape me.
A week after I was taken away, I was informed that I had to work for my living. My job then was to steal petty things. Later, I graduated into surveying the houses they would rob.
Three weeks into my stay with them, I was smuggled into someone’s apartment through the window. The idea was for me to go and steal some money so that we could eat because business was bad and they had no money. They thought nobody was in the house, but it was a mistake. The lady inside raised the alarm and I was arrested. But the rest of the gang ran and left me at the mercy of the mob.I was beaten by the mob. But for the intervention of the police, I would have been killed.
By the time I was taken to the police station, I was so weak and feverish that I could hardly stand on my feet.
At the police station — a very popular one in Ibadan. I met a very nice woman. After listening to my story, I was kept there for two days. When they could not locate my people, she said I had to go to the juvenile home as I could not stay there.
Before admitting me, she took me to the hospital where I was treated for many things, including severe STD. My lower abdomen was swollen and I had vaginal discharge.
By the time I had spent almost seven months at the juvenile home, a nice woman took me to stay with her. I later learnt that she adopted me. She had a son, who was away in the United States. She asked what I wanted to do, I opted to learn fashion designing. I had always loved it. But when her son came back to the country, he insisted that I should go back to school.
I was too big to go to a regular school, so I had to register at an extra-mural class. I wrote my GCE examinations three years after. By this time, I had perfected my fashion designing and after my graduation, “my mother” established me, but “my brother” insisted that I had to go back to school. So I had to go to the polytechnic to study Insurance.
It was during the cause of my study that I met my stepmother’s second daughter. She was an assistant food vendor in one of the food canteens on the campus.
I guess she told my father she saw me, because he came to look for me. When he came, I told “my mother,” and she said I had no choice but to forgive and give him another chance. He wasn’t looking well. He told me he was involved in an auto accident not long after I left. He had aged and I also learnt he was having problems with my stepmother and her children.
He also told me that my mother too was ill. She had HIV and was very down.
I told him in a plain language that I didn’t want to see my mother. I really didn’t know how they traced my house, but both of them came to plead with “my mother” to beg me.
They wanted money, and I am not ready to give them money. I am comfortable. Apart from the fact that I now have a good and supportive family, I also make good money from my fashion designing outfit, which is flourishing to the glory of God.
My question is, is it compulsory I help them? Then, what if I had died, who would have given them what they now want? Yet “my mother” insists that I help. Is this right?
Rachel

written by Peter Idowu, December 07, 2011
written by Good Rain, December 08, 2011
written by MAO1, December 08, 2011
However, if you want move on truly in life you have to forgive those your parents and help them if you have the means. Your adopted mother is telling you the best thing a mother could tell her child.
I enjoin you to read the story of Joseph in the Holy Bible Genesis chapters 37 to 50 and you will see that God's ways are quite different from our ways. If you had lived with your biological parents, you might have ended up like one of the daughters you saw as an assistant food vendor and not as promising and flourishing as you are now.
To return evil for good is devilish, to return good for good is human and to return good for evil is divine.
Please try my advice and you will see that God's favour will smile on you the more.
written by washington, December 08, 2011
A king who did not believe in the goodness of God had a slave who in all circumstances said: "My king, do not be discouraged, because everything God does is perfect, no mistakes!". One day, they went hunting and along the way a wild animal attacked the king. His slave managed to kill the animal,... but could not prevent his majesty losing a finger. Furious and without showing his gratitude for being saved, the nobleman said "Is God good? If He was good, I would not have been attacked and lost my finger. The slave replied: "My king, despite all these things, I can only tell you that God is good and he knows the "why" of all these things. What God does is perfect. He is never wrong!". Outraged by the response, the king ordered the arrest of his slave. Later, he left for another hunt and was captured by savages who made human sacrifices. In the altar, ready to sacrifice the noble savage had found that the victim had not one of his fingers, was released. According to them, it was not so complete to be offered to the gods. Upon his return to the palace, he authorized the release of his slave that he received very affectionately. My dear, God was really good to me! I was almost killed by the wild men, but for lack of a single finger, I was let go! But I have a question: If God is so good, why did he allow me to put you in jail? My King, if I had gone with you in this hunt, I would have been sacrificed for you, because I have no missing finger. Therefore, remember: everything God does is perfect and never wrong. Often we complain about life and things that happen to us apparently negative, forgetting that nothing is random and that everything has a purpose. Every morning, offer your day to God. Ask God to inspire your thoughts, guide your actions, and ease your feelings. Do not be afraid. God is never wrong! I do not know why this message is for you, but God knows because He never makes mistakes. The path of God and his word are perfect, without impurities. Good morning.
written by Blossom, December 08, 2011
written by Miss Olaoye, December 08, 2011
written by Lizzy O, December 08, 2011
written by Andy Anderson, December 08, 2011
Joseph in the bible was rebuked by his parents when he told them of his dreams. The brothers sold him off with the hope that he will be killed so that his dream will not come to pass. He later became a governor in the land of Egypt.
Later, when there was famine in the land where Joseph’s father and his siblings dwelled, they were forced to look for food and they ended up locating their brother whom they could not recognized. To cut the story short, when Joseph saw them, he forgave his brothers and parents and it was well with him.
Let me tell you. If you had stayed in that house, you would have been dead by now. I believe that what you passed through was for you to become somebody today.
The only way for you to sustain the God’s blessings that you are presently enjoying is to forgive, your parents, your step mother her children and even pray for those that raped you. There must have been a purpose for every thing you passed through. God will ever continue to shower you with more blessings. Bless them with what you have. Shower your mother with love an dif possible, take her to SCOAN (Synagogue Church of All Nations)for deliverance. She will be healed and the entire family reconciled and delivered.
written by DominicQ, December 09, 2011
written by Oguntuase M.A., December 09, 2011
written by Funshy, December 09, 2011
written by Aroyeun Abayomi, December 12, 2011
written by Teslim AbdulAzeez, December 12, 2011
My first advice is for to give a lot of thanks to Allah who saw you through your predicament and still blessing you. HE is the Most gracious, most Merciful.
Secondy, remember that every disappointment is a blessing in disguise. If your step-mother didn't drive you out of the house, you might not have met with the nice woman who is your God chosen mother.
Since you've succeeded,albeit it's difficult but try and forgive them and help them within your capacity and expect more blessing from Allah, our creator and sustainer.
Regards,
Teslim A.
written by human to divian, December 12, 2011
written by Samson Daniel, December 12, 2011
written by Wisy, December 12, 2011
written by El Duke, December 12, 2011
written by Theophilus, December 13, 2011
written by muritala yomi sikiru, December 13, 2011
written by Uzoma, December 14, 2011
I know you would have felt disappointed as no one so far has asked you to disregard/abandon your parents. I am not going to ask you to do that either. Infact those that offered one or two words of advice earlier have told you all you need to know but I will also emphasize on some of the facts already raised. (1) You are what you are today because of the trivails God allowed you to pass through. (2) There is ever nothing that takes God by surprise. (3) You have seen your mother's wayward life and where it led her to and this will guide and shape your life into becoming a better woman as you will not like to toe the same way. (4) Your stepmother's treatment to you and consequences that followed will also put you on a better footing to know how to treat other people's children that will pass through your life. So in all the experiences you passed through, God allowed them to come to pass as a memoriam to you for a better living. So rejoice and be glad in the Lord for he has given you victory. As for your parents, forgive them completely from the bottom of your heart so that your days will be long and you will also enjoy good relationship of your own children. Remember if your mother had wanted to kill you she would have done that right from conseption period. Finally, you should also forgive your step mother and show her love. Who knows if you would have been a spoilt child if mother, father and step mother had offered you all the care and love you feel they denied you and by so doing they over pamper you. Cheer up and be grateful to God who had seen you through all this and today you can be reckoned with. Good luck.
written by Gbenga Ayodele, December 14, 2011
written by ERNEST AGBO, December 16, 2011
written by PRINCE EZE, December 16, 2011
written by Ayanshola Godwin, December 19, 2011
Yes its good to help them but if it is convenient for you to do.Because,they are interested in you for what you are today.Therefore, dont allow them to become a liability to you and your destiny.Moreso, don't bring them to your house,what ever God has prevelege you to assist them monthly,please do.Always remember God throuhg out your life,i most be honest with you, you need him now more than what He has done for you in past.God bless you




Subscribe to Daily News