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Why would this pastor call my mother a witch?

Thursday, 19 January 2012

Dear readers,
She was well raised and protected from vices. However, she got involved with a young man who wants her to throw away all her values. She needs your help
Thanks, Monica Taiwo.

Dear Taiwo,
Please, help me out of this mess I am in. I don’t know how I got myself into this, but, I pray the Lord will sort me out before my parents, especially my mother get to know.

She is a prophetess, we attend a white garment church, and it appears God shows her things. The reason I need your help to get out of this mess before she finds out. She is going to be very dissappointed in me. I hate to make her feel bad.

My father also loves us his children dearly. Being the only daughter of the house, I always get a preferential treatment and I would hate to make my parents feel I left the house to rubbish all what they believed in.

I am 18, a 200-level Law student in one of the private universities. I am the only one attending a private university, probably, being the only girl and the last child.

I met and started dating a senior colleague of mine in school. He is also a Law student, but in 400 level and he is 23 years old.

We started our relationship when I passed into 200 level, and when I made up my mind to date him, I informed my parents. This is because, I am very close to both of them and there is nothing I do not discuss with them and my eldest brother, who is already working in a bank. During one of my visits home on a weekend, I told my family members about Femi.

After dinner, my mother called me and wanted to know more about him. After answering all her questions, she seemed to be okay with all my answers, especially the fact that he also is a Christian but not of the same denomination. He is of the pentecostal faith. My mother’s only advice was that I shouldn’t have sex for now if I haven’t done so yet.

I assured her that I haven’t had sex with him or any other man as she has taught me I haven’t the intentions of doing so until my wedding night. My elder brother gave me the same advice before I went back to school the following day and I assured him also that I knew what I was doing.

Three months into our relationship, despite the fact that I had already told Femi that I had no intentions of having sex with him or any man until my wedding night, Femi started asking me for sex and I always gave him the same answer which was always no.

On my birthday, he insisted that he wanted to have sex with me as my special birthday gift. I refused and he said he was ready to swear to an oath that he would marry me come what may.

I said I wasn’t interested and that even without swearing on oath, he could still marry me if God ordained the union. I knew he didn’t like my reply or decision, but I really was not burdened because I knew what I wanted.

For over two weeks, he behaved funny and avoided me; I called him and tried to diffuse the tension he created, but he was very stiff and I left him alone.

Few days after the last time I called him, he came looking for me at the school library. I was surprised when he tapped and excused me out. I followed him, though I was surprised. I was even more surprised when he introduced me to a guest who he said was his aunty.

I had no reason not to greet her and she said she had wanted to meet me for a long time and that she would want me to accompany Femi to her birthday celebration the following weekend.

It was the weekend I had to go home, so I didn’t need to phone my parents to ask for permission to go with him.

Femi picked me up from home, but on getting to his aunty’s house I was surprised because the impression I had about the party was not what I met. I thought it was going to be a big bash, but it was just a family thing. After we had spent about 30 minutes, Femi’s aunty called me and said the pastor of her church would like to meet and pray for me. I have nothing against prayers, but I was a little surprised. Moreso, I see no reason why I should be singled out for such supposed favour. Her pastor was also not a part of the party, he was seated in one of the rooms.

On the long run, he prayed and said he had some revelations for me. In his vision, he said Femi is my God appointed husband and that if I do not marry him, it would be difficult for me to get a man to marry in future. He also said that my mother is a witch and that she would want to stop my marriage to Femi because she has seen that she won’t be able to manipulate Femi’s glory for her diabolical use. I was too shocked to say a word. I asked him what I should do; he told me to avoid my mother as much as possible and that I should not tell her about the things he told me or what happened.

Because of my background, I am used to prophesies, but I know that, pentecostal churches are not given to this kind of things, so I asked what the name of his church is; his answer further baffled me because he said where he worships does not matter.

He asked that I should come back and see him for some spiritual guidance.

When I came out of the room where he spoke with me, Femi wanted to know what he told me, but I refused to tell him anything.

I was however shocked to hear him repeat some of the things the pastor told me.

I have really been disturbed since then. I also tried to avoid Femi as much as possible.

I don’t know if I should tell my parents. I know my mother is not a witch. What would their reactions be? I have tried to ignore the prophecy and everything I was told, but the details keep coming back to me. Help me, Aunty Taiwo.
Anonymous, Lagos

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God please!
written by Chima, January 19, 2012

Pls dear, 4 ya good, run as far as possible from these set of ppl as soon as possible! Evil plotters, tryin to lure a young girl into deceptions and scruples. My candid advice s simply, ignore him hereafter, and wish u neva had met him in this world b4. But i must applaud ya wisdom of sharin this whole drama @ such age of yours.

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written by Bisi Ayodele, January 19, 2012

Hey young lady what other sign do you need ?,that is a clear handwritting on the wall for you.Cut the diabolic relationship in a hart beat, let your parent and your sibling know about this b/4 you are kidnapped and gang rape.It use to be the method of 1960,s it is back in vogue.Change your phone #, do not respond yo any visitation/calls by this evil boy,run-run-run for your dear life.

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written by sumbo, January 19, 2012

my dear run as fast as your legs can take you away from those people.femi is a liar!! that man is not a pastor, they just want to play on your intelligence so he can have sex with you.

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written by Richly, January 19, 2012

Run away from Femi, the Pastor & everyone related to him if you love your life. Nothing should come between your relationship with your parents. If a Pastor is actually telling you that, then it's obvious who's Pastor he is. Once again, run away from Femi, the Pastor & everyone else related to him & be prayerful.

Why would this pastor call my mother a witch?
written by Ibro Badr, January 19, 2012

Tell your parents what that "Pastor" said and tell them fast. Were your mum to be a witch, she would have harmed you or your siblings since, you did not mention one single bad thing or calamity happening to your family in the past. Witches MUST always donate their loved ones to their covens.
Your parents are good people and they have cared for you well all these while. This "Pastor" is a fake and I repeat, the Pastor is fake and the whole "Prayer" & "Revelation" exercise was organized. Hang-on and review the facts: the Aunty came to your school to specially invite you to the party, the Pastor was not part of the party (I say he is NOT the Pastor of the Aunty's Church or why hide him?) and Femi knows all the Pastor said.
the truth; Femi is setting you up to have sex with you and abandon you, o pari. That is the whole aim of this kangaroo "Prayer & vision", stay CLOSER to your parents!!

WATCH OUT, DANGER AHEAD!!!
written by Yemmie, January 19, 2012

If everything you said is true then for now be extraordinarily careful!!!
You are 18 yrs now and at 200 level, just tell femi to wait for you till you finish your study if he really loves you and want to marry you. Otherwise let him go. Even my advice for you now is to avoid him like plague - for I see the whole arrangement of the prophecy thing as fake and deceptive.

For these two cases (Femi as your future husband and mother is a witch) - let time breath into them,for they will be healed by it. However, if you are not prayerful in nature, draw closer to God and put everything in HIS hands. Then if Femi is your husband even if he leaves you, he will come back. If your mother is a witch, time will tell and God will safe you from her hands.
It is even dangerous now to let femi sleep with you, for I'm logically see him to be diabolical in nature. Watch out,there are many fake prophets now!!!!!!!!!!!
The Lord God will be with you.

Dear gal
written by Richoco, January 19, 2012

Baby gal u better run f ur dear life bcoz dis people wud manipulate u nd make u go against ur nyce nd lovely family,dey will turn u against each oda nd i will advice u to tell ur parent immediately uve bin able to dispose im in a trash can.my friend d ansa is RUN FOr UR DEAr LIFe.

BE Careful
written by Chimezie, January 19, 2012

Please what are you waiting for? go ahead and reveal all that happened to your parents. Take them into confidence because what you are passing through at the moment can destroy one's destiny. Also you need to be careful with your boyfriend and everyone around him until things are sorted out. finally go on your knees before God, that is the best solution. It is well with you.

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written by adebola, January 19, 2012

Hello my young lawyer to be,pls not note the ffg points
1.Any pastor or individual that is dubious or with bad motives will give you and info but the person will tell u dont tell anyone,its a lie and no truth in that info.
2.I want u to be careful maybe they are looking for a virgin for ritual purposes and they want u to be their victim.The case is simple.
3.Run away from femi bcos femi will never marry you.For him to go to that extent of using a fake pastor to deceive u.

DO NOT DISTURB YOUR BRAIN,JUST DROP FEMI AND TELL YOUR PARENTS ABOUT IT SO THAT U CAN HAVE A CLEAR CONSCIENCE ABOUT IT

Why would this pastor call my mother a witch?
written by Samobeito, January 19, 2012

My advise to you is that you should please neglect the fake prophesy. The prophesy is the imagination & plan work of your boy friend & his cohort. God has not send the Pastor anything at all. In fact, I thought it if the man is actually a Pastor as claimed. Please, keep on praying that God should show you your own husband. Finally I say this boldly that your mother is not a witch. Thanks

Stay clear away from Femi and his family
written by Ine, January 19, 2012

I must sincerely tell you dat, d whole tin is a satinic manipulation between Femi, his Aunt and d pastor! Stay clear from that family. Dia r tins dat happens in d spiritual world dat is not undastood by d ordinary mind. The moment u av sex with him, you are done with and done for. Your mother is d most wonderful person u av had, dnt blow it up. U could decide to av a talk with her or just tell her u av broken up with Femi. A word they say is enof 4d wise!

quit the relationship very fast
written by pauluba, January 19, 2012

You are an ignorant girl and probably not matured enough to see that your socalled boyfriend is not somebody you should trust.you shouldn't believe everything u hear because they can either make you or unmake you.
Starting with your boyfriend,he seem to be a desperado and could possibly do anything he can to achieve his aim,which also includes killing you if he feels threatened or see any reason to do so and would go to any lenght to destroy your you and bright career ahead of you.all this is evident when her aunty or whatever invited u to her house for a birthday party and what happened in the party was already prearranged to fool you into believing that he is the man for and am happy to inform you that the man that calls he himself pastor is not a pastor because if he is,he should be able to tell you his church because no pastor would want to be secretive about his own church simply because you may turn out to be a member someday.it will be clear to point out here that your boyfriend and his colleagues are group of 419 that wants to destroy your life.
As for your mother,she is not a witch,you should thank GOD you have a mother like that who can send you to a private university to study law and become a better person in life just because she love you so much.go back to your mum and tell her everything and she will understand because it will help you to take better decision next time because life is a teacher,the more you live the more you learn

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written by ayodele1, January 19, 2012

Thanks so much for your letter and your courage to write this letter. For and foremost I want to tell you there is no FEAR in love, any love that put you under bondage, please pray and pray about it. If not for your the fact that you are an undergraduate and a sophomore, I would have said you are young , but considering your intelligent and the way you have framed this letter.
If your mother is a witch as claimed by the Pastor, what effort is he making to deliver your mother and if your mother is one, will she not make you one. By God's grace I'm a minister in one the popular pentecostal church. Marriage is a long time investment and you must not force yourself to life slavery. Don't give to his sex overture, if he leaves God will provide a far far better suitor. Let God choose for you. Have a heart to heart talk with Femi and tell him to let you go and see a neutral Pastor to pray with you on the issue. Seek marriage counsellor and I can link you with one. God will do new things in your lives and be more prayerful taht God will open Femi's eyes to see the truth. God will help you to keep your virtue, because marriage is honourable and bed should remain undefiled.

RUN AWAY FROM HIM
written by Andy Anderson, January 19, 2012

Having gone through your heart touching story, I would at this point state that you are truly a faithful and disciplined child. Please the guy in question is diabolical and fraud. He arranged for this act and the so called pastor is not a pastor but a fraud. Your mother is not a witch but ways for them to get you sleep with you.

Stop any form of relationship with him and tell your mother of this. You have to be careful of this guy. He is fetish and might use you for ritual. You are still young to go into any form of relationship now. Face your education and when you are done with your studies and is ready to settle down, ask God to give you your husband.
Run away from this guy and keep off. Let your parents confront him and also make it known to your school that anything that happens to you, that he will be held responsible.

Mr.
written by JIMI OYETOMI, January 19, 2012

This young lady need to know that there are lots of fake prophets who could be used to attain just any ends. They all have their prices and this Femi's prophet is no exception.

Re: Why would this pastor call my mother a witch?
written by Ronke John, January 19, 2012

Never allow these fake pastors to dis-organise the sweet family you have come from. Be very courteous of your relationship with Femi. He is evil with his aunt. They are wicked and have planned against you.

Please avoid any information that is contrary to what your parents have brought you up with. Your parents especially your mother is a witch, yet she did not suck you when you were in her womb, you came to life and grew up to attain this age, yet she is still training you to become a person in life.
Don't allow the foolish family to destroy the home God has built, hence desist from the present relationship with Femi because he is devilish. Your affairs will lead to destruction with Femi if you don't avoid him.
My advice to you is to inform your parents of the present situation since you already brought them into the picture of your existing relationship with Femi. Make sure you desist from this devilish affairs.
I pray that God will open your spiritual eyes to see the kind of person Femi is. God will help you.

Femi wants to ruin you
written by Washington, January 19, 2012

You better take to your heels now and stay away as far as possible from this Femi guy. Tell your parents everything and go to God in prayers. Thank God also for revealing the this Femi to you at this early stage of your relationship. Nothing good will come out of him. All he want is sex and to ruin you.

No panic!
written by Olumide@fidelity, January 19, 2012

Reading ur story has been very interesting,& another thing is d@ i salute ur courage not 2've placed ur destiny for sale.however,i'm glad 2 tell u this.The gospel truth is d@ ur boy friend conspired with d pastor(doubtful) 2 stage such a destructive prophecy.moreover,u're highly required 2 inform ur mother because she's involved.Also,d hidden truth is d@ Femi wants 2 sleep with u by all means & u 2 must avoid it by all means.To cap it all,always endeavour 2 live a genuine xtian life.

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written by Olu Nesta, January 19, 2012

My dear young girl, run for your life. Don't disturb your mother's peace by telling her. The 'pastor' and your boyfriend are trying to set you up. pray unto God yourself to give you your own husband in the future concentrate on your study now, at 18 you can still be vulnerable despite your undergraduate status.
Don't go back to that 'pastor' no matter the urge b/s he and femi are trying to manipulate you. Always remember the Biblical Injuction "honor your Parents".... Shalom!

You are being manipulated
written by Kemi, January 19, 2012

Dear anonymous,

I want to praise your courage to stand up to your conviction on no-sex before marriage. Please hold on to it, as this is a very rare virtue among our youths today. Secondly, please DO NOT listen to this preacher at all. He might have colluded with Femi's family to manipulate and confuse you. Your mother is not a witch, they only want to turn you against your family members so that Femi could have his way with you. My advice is that you leave Femi alone, God would provide a better and godly man who would have the same value with you. He is not worth it. He would only use and dump you. You don't need to tell your parents what the prophet said, but let them know that Femi is not worthy to have you if they insist on knowing why you left Him. Give your life to Christ and move close to God for direction in all your undertakings. Attend a bible believing church for your spiritual growth and God Himself can guide you through the help of the Holy spirit. It is well with you.

Run, baby run
written by Ireke Onibudo, January 19, 2012

Run very far from Femi, his family and their pastor. He is going to end up being diabolical. He started by telling you that he's ready to swear an oath, next he will tell you take a blood covenant. His pastor scheme is also a ruse. A true pastor will not tell him (or anyone) what he had told you. Just run away from all of them including the conniving aunty.

Please tell your family of Femi's request, your refusal, his promise to swear an oath and what you feel about the whole thing. Then tell them about the pastor and how you heard what he told you from Femi. You don't have to give all the details about who is a witch though. I wish you all the best.

Mr
written by Obico, January 19, 2012

Young lady, at your age you should be fully focussed on your studies instead of the side attractions that might likely ruin your life. Why should marriage borders you at the moment? With your claimed form of upbringing, your parents should'nt had advised you into such close relationship.
Anyway,my advices is that you should cut off the relationship, avoid the so-called bornagain Femi. you are only being framed up for him to have canalknowledge of you. After that, he would be on his way.

BEWARE - THE DEVIL IS AT WORK.
written by Mao1, January 19, 2012

Dear,

My candid advice to you is that you should run away from all of them - Your supposed fiance, his aunt and the prophet. They have nothing to offer you but confusion.

God encourages you to test all spirits because not all spirits are of God. The fact that Femi has a knowledge of what the prophet told you in secret is a good sign for you to be wary of all of them.

You still have your whole life ahead of you, don't allow anybody to turn you against your family. Your mum gave you a very good counsel, please follow it.

Pray to God and He will surely see you through.

AND SO WHAT IF YOUR MOTHER IS WITCH............................
written by BAMIDELE AKINYEMI, January 19, 2012

Young lady even your mother is anything more than a witch is still your mother you need her blessing am even pray to have someone like your mother don't let them mislead you while is that they don't any other time for their wicked mission than the day you invited to birthday flee out of the wicked family one day you will find somebody who would have aspect the way you are. you even slack you would have give the so called man of devil a good slap to mind is saying next time or is it necessary you married him. look at it on the other side he said if you don't married him you will find it difficult to marry less take for instance that the man dead will you not married again please be careful.

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written by Sunny Omigie, January 19, 2012

Am highly impressed with your upbringing. Don't let your self be misled by one of the false prophets of our time. Keep your good virtues please. What stops you from telling your mother all you heard from the false prophet?

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written by Ade Onibudo, January 19, 2012

Pls dear ,Run ,dont just walk from this relationship with Femi ,Run please.
You are still young and this is just a ploy of the devil to robe you into his web.Many has been trapped like this.Dont listen to that lie
I beg you in Jesus name ,do not hesitate to tell your parents as you have always done.Dont allow the devil to shut your mouth.
This also a good time to know God,read your Bible ,pray every time.The Lord will lead you in Jesus name.

Do not be deceived
written by Fyfy, January 19, 2012

I was laughing after reading your story, not because I do not believe this kind of thing would happen but because you are naive in this type of thing. Like almost everyone that sent a comment said "Your so called boyfriend is a fraud", a cheat who could do ANYTHING just to disvirgin you. My dear the bible says FLEE. Your mother is not a witch, do not be deceived. Any prophesy that is not building you up spiritually is FAKE. Dont even bother. Face your studies and QUIT this relationship before you are ruined. God bless you.

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written by ABDULLATIF ABDULFATAI, January 19, 2012

My advice to you is that you should never have sex with femi and tell your parent all what has happened inorder to not disturb you academically

Run!!
written by Isa, January 19, 2012

Sweetheart, run!! Just run! You are much too young to have some set of strangers come telling you that the parents who have cared for you & spared you nothing in this life now wish you harm. Just run from Femi & his family lest you lose your sanity & cry unending tears for the rest of your life. At the appointed place & time you shall insha Allah get married to a man who shall love & respect you & your family & not one who seeks to take advantage of you.

Be careful
written by SM, January 19, 2012

My dear, I commended your courage for speaking out fast but be very careful about this boy. He is a diabolically oriented. Tell your parents and that your brother you mentioned in your story. Don't become a slave to anybody for the sake of love. Be vigilant and very prayerful about this case and engage your parents in the same. Because this boy can do and undo any stupid action in order to get you at all cost.
I pray that God will guide you and safe you from this messy situation in Jesus name.

Be very careful
written by SM, January 19, 2012

This Is of the Devil
written by Pastor Steve(Germany), January 19, 2012

Without minding my words I want to tell you that the so call Pastor is not a Pastor or a prophet but a complete ocultic spiritualist arrange by your so calléd Femi and his family to exploit you and destroy your Family.Pls this is not from God and I can say it loud and clear that he is is the witch and not your mother.Pls be very carefull.Dont ever go near such person in your life again.And secondly matain your dignity and virginity till your welding night as this will make you a role mdel for this backward and amorous generation.You are special gift to your family and you should not allow Femi and his evil gang to destroy your family.
Note too,that with this background of Femi you can never marry him and be happy as you will continue to live a suspicious life.For more counseeling you can reach me on This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it '> This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it

Re:Why would this pastor call my mother a witch?
written by Albert, January 19, 2012

My dear Lady,
I want to greet for your courage and to chip in my candid advice thus;
In the first place, since you claimed to be a member of a white garment church, did you find out from God through His messengers if You and Femi would be an item in the future, if you did, how was it? Secondly, as concerning your mum being a witch according to the prearranged prophecy, you don't have to bother yourself over it. Again, your have to go through the process of which I think you are familiar with-seeking the voice of God. Lastly, among our parents and your siblings, discuss it with the one whom you are closest with and listen to their advice. Good luck.

FLEE FOR DEAR LIFE!
written by Adesoji Adereti, January 19, 2012

It is clear that Femi is not a christian as he claimed. My counsel is that you should flee from this relationship. You may also tell your parents about it but ignore the false prophecy. It is not from God. You should face your studies, and get yourself closer to God by studying your bible, and obeying whatever God teaches you directly from the word.

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written by tonitara From London, January 19, 2012

My advise to you sweetheart,firstly!run as far as your leg can carry you away from Femi,his aunty and pastor.
Secondly,tell both your mum and dad even your elder brother the situation so that they can advise and protect you from these evil people. Your mum is not nor has ever been a witch.

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written by FEMI_UK, January 19, 2012

Femi (not your Femi though) is trying to scheme you into bed. He's graduating soon and he believes you have to be conquered sexually before he leaves. He's a lying serpent!

Re:Why would this pastor call my mother a witch?
written by Albert, January 19, 2012

My dear young lady,
I want to praise you for courage and resilient. Keep it up.
According to your claim being a white garment church member, did inquire if you and Femi would be an item in the future? If you did, what's the verdict? Two, being in the know of the processes involved in this platform (white garment church), you ought to have gone out of your way to seek the voice of God in this circumstance (your being labeled a which) by this so called prophet ( I call him, an agent of darkness). Finally, disclose this information to either of your parents or your elder brother-the banker, in confidence, and I believe, the outcome will settle the matter. Good luck.

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written by Sunmbomoye, January 19, 2012

You need to abstain from all appearance of evil and flee from every form of youthful lust. This boy wants to set you up and use what you believe (prophecies) to confuse, deceive, persuade lure and diabolically force you into what you dont want to do before. Flee from him and everyone associated with him. From your story, it seemed they planned all what the so called pastor told you. You may find out, the "pastor" is not any pastor than agent of evil. People are wise pls be wiser. And Jesus is the wisdom of God, accept Him into your life and decide to walk with Him in holiness of life. Commune with Him in prayer and he shall direct you path. Live righteously for “righteousness exalts a nation but sin is a reproach to any people”-Prov 14:34. And God will give you the best. For more counsel, you can still reach me on 08022630175. Pls, uphold righteousness in your life. Dont go into any form immorality with any man. Abstain from all appearance of evil. God hates such evil. If you do what God wants, he will give you what you want/need. It is well with you.

Re:Why would this pastor call my mother a witch?
written by Albert, January 19, 2012

PLEASE RUN FOR DEAR LIFE.
written by MONJOLAOLUWA AFEDA, January 19, 2012

HELLO PRECIOUS SISTER, I AM QUITE DELIGHTED TO KNOW THAT WE STILL HAVE YOUR TYPE IN THIS SATAN POLLUTED SOCIETY OF OURS.I REALLY THANK GOD FOR YOUR LIFE. PLEASE, I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD ALMIGHTY TO RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE FOR THERE IS FIRE ON FIRE MOUNTAIN IF YOU REFUSE TO DO SO. I CAN MAKE BOLD TO TELL YOU THAT THE SUPPOSE MAN OF GOD IS FAKE AND SO ALSO IS HIS FAKE VISION. THE WHOLE THING WAS PRE-ARRANGED FOR YOUR DOWNFALL.AND THIS YOUR SO-CALLED LOVER IS ONLY INTERESTED IN YOUR BODY JUST TO DESTROY YOUR GLORIOUS FUTURE.TELL YOUR PARENTS EVERYTHING AND FORGET ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP FOREVER.A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE. GOD BLESS YOU PRECIOUS ONE.

Run and dont stop for him
written by Apataganga, January 19, 2012

That guy Femi or whatever you called his name is evil personified. He is out to do nothing but to destroy your life if you allowed him. Countless of lifes and homes have been destroyed courtesy of people like him and their fake prophets. Nothing is wrong with your mother my dear, but everything is wrong with Femi or whatever you call his name

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written by Awolusi Adewole, January 20, 2012

I must confess that I pity you. You have fallen into the hands of those who wants to manipulate your destiny. All is not lost, Femi is not a Christian, because a truly born again Christian will not not ask for sex before marriage. The foundation of your relationship is faulty, no good edifice can stand on such foundation.(Ps 11:3).
Lady, break the relationship immediately and run for your life.
Get closer to God and know him personally and He will not fail you. Peace be unto you.

This Hand of devil.
written by Abiola Sunday M, January 20, 2012

My dear little girl, the so called pastor who has inform you that your mother who nurtured you before you know what is in this world now become witch suddenly in the eye of fake prophet this a topical hand work of Femi who is desperate to sleep with you.If your story is Truth as you claim i advice you to back-out from this relationship and remain virgin as the way u choose to be til you get married.

Advice
written by Wise, January 20, 2012

People have already summarizing the hole things for you. Femi is looking for the way out to dis-virgin you by all means. It will be for your own good to analyze all this to your parents to know the type of person Femi is. Am equally advice you to break up this relationship.

THE MESSAGE IS CLEAR
written by Uzoma, January 20, 2012

Dear anonymous,
I have sometime said in this column that there are issues that the reading public are not suppose to be bugged with such as this. I say this because the answer to your headache here is so obvious that you don't need a soothsayer to convince you that all these are fake. All the same, because of your age you need our advice to guide you aright. Some of the advice on display here are so much going spiritual in such a way that if care is not taken, you could be confused the more. There is nothing spiritual here except that this is a case of a desperate scheemer who wants to sleep with a virgin at all cost and he is out to try many options to achieve this. Some other ones are also talking about being closer to God. Much as I am not against your being closer to God, I want to believe that you are already closer to him and he also closer to you and that is why he has been exposing some hidden dangers to you and shielding you from them. Nothing stops Femi from raping you that day you visited him but for God's favour upon you. Your purity is an asset that draws God's cover over you and you should endeavour to continue to guard it jealously. The point I am trying to make here is that you are already under God's favour and protection the remaining task is now remaining for you to put into action. (1) You should end every relationship with this Femi of a deceiver. (2) You should let your parents know about all this immediately so that if there is any further evil plan Femi and his cohorts still have in mind against you, they will be able to warn him against doing anything foolish to you henceforth. Finally you should continue to be the nice and pure girl you are and face your career with the seriousness it deserves and leave the remaining battle for God to fight for you. Let me also add that you should never allow this fake prophecy to bring problems between you and your mother who loves you so much and has been doing everything to prove that. Good luck.

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written by Japharable, January 20, 2012

Hi Girl, let me share a case study with you. When my babe(wife now) and I were convinced of our compatiblity and ready to marry, a prophet told my wife that I had a baby boy (to be specific) in my home town. She told me about it and I told her it is a white lie. Today she has seen it that I do not have any baby outside our marriage. So let Femi know about the prohesy 4rm the so called Pastor to see his(Femi)'s reaction first. Do not give in to his request of sex until your D-day night as you have proposed in your heart. Pls keep loving your mum.

End this relationship
written by Wole Famakinwa, January 20, 2012

My dear daughter, please stay away from this relationship. Face your studies. That should be your main considerations now. Yuor parents have been good to you and you do not want a husband who will turn you against your parents and the family. In the fullness of time all will be revealed. Let Femi know that you intend to put the relationship on hold for the time being and he should leave you alone at school. Do not spend any time alone with him. If he wants to wait for you, that is his own bussiness. bit I suspect his true colours will come out soon.

Avoid the guy and others
written by alabule, January 20, 2012

What i can advise you is that the whole thing is just a setup, so that the guy can have sex with you, don't listen to him and his pastor, contact your mother and tell her what"s is going on before you ruin your own life with the guy

Don't mind them
written by alabule, January 20, 2012

Just take your time and don't listen to them, tell your mom about the whole things, it's just a set up

Run pls
written by caro, January 20, 2012

please my dear Taiwo, kindly forward to this innocent girl all this our comments, let her not fall into the hand of femi and his diabolical pastors, aunties. its important she also know that the bible says 'children obey for parent for this is right in the Lord' she should be more close to her parent in this time, tell your parent, brothers everything. you are in 200l now and you have 3 yrs to go, at the point you will graduate in three yrs, any man who know you are a virgin will respect you and love you with godly love not to femi who will waste your future with guilt and had i know hisses. dont also forget the scripteure says, line upon line, precept upon precept, any prophecy against the Word of God should be ignored. i once hated my mum cos of the way she treated me and my sister badly, but when i realised i cant hate and expect to go to heaven or even be blessed by God, i faithfull prayed for her and now love her, but in this case your mum love you, why will you pay her back with isolation and calling her names? please expose femi and his cohorts to your family nowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, dont hide anything becos if you dont your behavoir will change and they will know. Expose evil. God will help you and i will pray for you tonight.

Please for about Femi
written by Leye, January 20, 2012

My sister, I want to advise you to tell your parents all that transpired as you have narrated to hear their opinion and forget about Femi and his evil prophet.
You're too young to be talking about husband for now. Let your husband be your studies. the moment Femi had sex with you,you'll have no value before him. it'll just be on record that he deflowered you.
It's well with you.

Mr
written by Borisanmi, January 20, 2012

A word is enough for the wise, you have been well advised by all here. Just run for your dear life.

Mr
written by matt Daress, January 20, 2012

I bet it with you that the man you were takn to was never a pastor but a fake arranged by your boyfriend and his aunt. He said your mother was a witch. Witch indeed! She was a witch and she did not kill your brothers or you. All of you are doing well. I think I like that kind of witchcraft. I will advice you to run for you dear life because if you don't, you may be heading towards the greatest mistake of your life. Femi is not your husband, in fact he doesn't love you, he's just pretending. God bless you

they want to set you up - dont allow it
written by otito, January 23, 2012

Young lady, tell that stupid boy you never want to see him again. Make sure u tell you father, mother and elder brother this rubbish immediately. run back home babe, dont let femi, his fake anuty and the fake paster deceive u

Miss
written by Ebenezer Titilayomi, January 24, 2012

It is ibvious that Femi and his people are rogues, they might need your viginity for ritual! BEWARE! Your mother is not a witch but a loving and responsible woman. Anf for this these cruel people want to destroy the beautiful relationship between you and her. So, keeep off of the relationship(Femi and his 419ners)

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written by AKCR45, January 25, 2012

God loves you Young lady. He has revealed in advance the type of person Femi is. Please keep away from him and his family. This game is an indication that you both are not destined to be together.

Mr.
written by Andrew Orona, January 25, 2012

Young girl, I can see that you are being by the spirit of God in you.Please, cut all contacts with the so-called boyfriend, he is an evil association. The pastor is faked,for instance, him telling you not to tell your mother, prophecys are meant for reprove and corrections, what does he expect from you, run away from your family? The so-called party was a plot and a calculated arrangement to defile your person, please flee, I say flee from the relationship.

Mr
written by Omomoh Bernard, January 25, 2012

Lady,you have to be very careful.The guy is only after your body.Please,tell your family everything.They cant harm you.

BE CAREFUL
written by Hephzaron, January 25, 2012

2me This is a complete trash, 4d sake of ur life and ur mother dont allow urself 2b seduced by ANYONE,do what is right, seeek God urself dont allow anyone 2 seek Him 4u.

pentecostal versus white garment
written by ladipo, January 25, 2012

my sister do not allow them to confuse u because there is no love lost between the pentecostal and the white garment church.they condem u in the afternoon and go to them for solutions in the night. do not allow thm them to spoil your glory .your husband is on the way

Mrs
written by Glory, January 25, 2012

My dear, this is a set-up to make you derail. I thank God for your life. Please pick a very fast race and let your family into this cooked up event. Femi or whatever he calls himself does not deserve you in any way. He wants to use and domped you. Run as fast as your legs can take you.

pray hard to beu sure its true.
written by vanessa, January 25, 2012

hello, what if its true. go into prayer and fasting and ask the lord to reveal the kind of person your mother is to you. also pray about your guy if he is really the man for you.

Beware of the false prophet
written by Lynda, January 25, 2012

Dear, stay well clear of the stupid idiot of a man that wants to have sex with you before marriage, and setting you up with one stupid pastor. Please beware of false prophets

Run away from Femi
written by Logo, January 26, 2012

Run far away from both Femi, his aunty and the satanic pastor. They will destroy your testimony and ruin your live. People like that have ruin lots of ladies live. DO NOT BE AMONG THEM. If your mum wants to know why you stop dating him tell her the whole truth.

Why would the pastor call my mother a witch
written by Jolioha, January 27, 2012

Sweet dear,
Frankly speaking, your mother is not a witch. Your so-called boyfriend schemed and planned the whole scenerio perfectly in order for you to fall into his selfish desires. Ignore that devilish prophecy. The man in question is not a pastor, the lady in question is not Femi's aunty. They are all schemers. Pls run for your dear life and reunite your intimacy with your parents and family members. thank you.

why would a pastor call my mother a witch
written by joe segun, January 27, 2012

I AGREE WITH MOST OF THE ABOVE ADVICE GIVEN TO YOU BUT I HAVE TO SAY BE CAREFUL IF YOU GO ANY WHERE WITH HIM TO BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR DRINK TAKE YUOR DRINK TO WASHROOM INSTESD OF LEAVING IT WITH HIM FOR FEAR IT MIGHT BE SPIKED TO MAKE U UNCONSCIOUS TO DEFIL YOU AND ACHIVE HIS EVIL AMBITION. MAY GOG CONTINUE TO PROTECT YOU IN JESUS NAME. AMEN.

Avoid him
written by Kelly Kerrim, January 30, 2012

Hello, That is a plan work by Feme, Aunty and the pastor. You should delete it from your mind and stay away from Femi. Do not have anything to do with him, he is hungered of sex and that is the reasons why he has to manipulate everything so that he can get what he wants. Face your study and forget Femi. If he persist report him to the police. Otherwise he will distroy your life and the happiness of your family keep your virginity.ok

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written by ehi-sulaiman, January 30, 2012

My dear daughter,JEHOVAH indeed richly bless you and keep you to glorify HIS name.Hold on to your faith and keep your chastity.Remember that false prophesies abound in this end times.JEHOVAH deliver you from the evil hand,evil eyes,evil counsel and HIS pressence abide with you always.Of a truth,Femi,his aunty and the pastor need prayers for their heart to be united to the fear of the name of JEHOVAH
Daughter you are covered with the blood of JESUS CHRIST

why is the pastor calling my mother a witch
written by ebele, January 30, 2012

my dear you know your mother more than any one, looking at the whole story the event was a planned one and am not telling you to quite your relationship but mind how you discuss or go out with him and let your parent know before it is too late.

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written by Osato, February 01, 2012

You ought to see it as a fishy, well planned incidence. How would the pastor give u prophesies and your boy-friend/fiance tells you the same thing after you refused to tell him what you were told? Look in front of you girl, its a trick to get you into bed automatically. If the guy really loves you, he won't pressure you for sex before marriage, and he won't force you by fraud to marry him. I think the so-called aunt's party was all a farce to deceive you.
Your mother is your mother.
Its true that some mothers happen to be the problems that their children have; but from what you have said, it is true that your parents love you dearly, especially your mother. By asking you not to have sex before marriage tells you how much she has your interests at heart.
The easiest way for Femi to get you to do what he wants is to project your mother in any negative picture.
Think girl.
There are many fishes in the river
No need to rush