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Saturday, 04 February 2012
Dear Yemisi,
I need your advice. I dated a guy for over four years and he impregnated another girl, then I left him, though it was a painful decision.
Now, I am in love with another man who already has a son while the mother of the boy had run away for almost seven years. But now that I am in love with him, the mother of his son is staging a comeback but he loves me.
Please, advise me before I do what I don’t want to do.
Thanks,
Beauty.
Dear Beauty,
You are yet to meet with the bone of your bone. The two men that you have related with so far are not meant for you and you must take off your eyes off the men.
The two of them are detractors who will further break your heart.
To my understanding, the first man never wanted you as wife, but as a lover. You need not be carried away with his pleas, because he couldn’t have been so courageous to have been cheating on you to the extent of impregnating another lady, if he meant well for you.
If you accept him because of the affection, what will be the place of the boy? Are you ready to accept him? These are the questions you must answer honestly before you finally decide.
Concerning the other man, are you sure that the man was never married to his run away woman who is now staging a comeback?
Please, don’t fall in love blindly with him because of the other lady. You need to be more sensitive about your love life more than before. Open your eyes and pray for the way out of this problem.
Give yourself a break to think properly as to who the man who will win your heart should be. Your emotions have been toyed with sufficiently and you must be cautious.
Let the man know that you are not prepared to compete for any man’s love under any guise.
Beauty, with more patience, you will smile in the end if you could learn to hold your life and define your goals.
Be prayerful.
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